10 Tips for Teaching a Reluctant High School Writer – part 2

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10 tips for teaching a reluctant high school writer part 2

Do you have a high school writer that doesn’t like to write?  Here’s part 2 of our 10 tips for teaching a reluctant high school writer!

If you missed the first post with tips 1-5, read it here. (Actually, no matter how old your reluctant writer is, several tips from # 1-5 apply!)

Continuing now with tips # 6-10 in teaching a reluctant high school writer to write.

These next tips relate specifically to high school writers, although if you have an 8th grader you might try a few of them now.

Here we go:


6. Ask for your reluctant high school writer’s help.

I know this sounds odd, particularly for a reluctant writer. However, when a student perceives himself as needed, it builds confidence.  Try asking your high school student to help out.  You’re obviously busy, so maybe your high schooler could read and edit a short assignment from a younger sibling, or even something you’ve written.

Obviously, you don’t want to ask him to do something that is beyond his ability. So be sure you’ve worked through basic self-editing skills first.

And if your student is reading a younger sibling’s work, make sure he is editing a copy. Go over the paper with your high school student and let him tell you what he thought was wrong and how he’d fix it.

And then YOU go over it with your younger student — but don’t feel as though you have to pass on everything if there are a lot of errors. Work on one or a few areas at a time with younger writers instead of throwing everything at them at once!

Why all of this focus on editing, you ask?

Students who can edit their own work tend to feel more confident about writing.  Although editing is a different skill than writing,  it’s not uncommon for a reluctant writer to understand how writing should look or sound. (Even if he’s not so excited about writing.)  As well, the more editing practice, the better the writing skills later.


7. Be novel – try “paired writing” with your high school writer (pun intended)

Consider writing projects or paired writing. Often high school students will contribute more and gain more confidence if they are not writing alone.  Discuss this with your student prior to making any decisions.  If your student is adamant about not wanting to write with another student or sibling, don’t push it.

In our experience, however, most students feel less pressure when more than one person is involved, especially if they’re writing with another student.

10 tips for teaching a reluctant high school writer

8. Next, teach your reluctant high school writer the 5 basic essay types.

The basic high school essay styles (expository, narrative, persuasive, comparison/contrast, and descriptive) are vital for high school students to master. Take your time and work on them over a period of a year, if you need to. Preferably, your student’s ninth-grade year. But you can also choose to do this course for one semester.

Alternatively, you could work on this for one semester or even during the summer.

  • Work on the styles one by one moving from simplest in form (expository, narrative, and descriptive) to more difficult (persuasive and comparison/contrast).  Most students like certain styles over others, which is natural.  Be as encouraging as possible when your student finds a style that fits his personality. In fact, consider adding an additional assignment to fit that style.  It will build confidence.  Allow more time for the styles that do not appeal to your student.
  • Have your student read through examples the type of essay she’s learning before beginning to write, to help her have a crystal clear understanding of the essay format.  Reassure your high school writer that there will be multiple draft opportunities to get it right.  Writing is not a “one-and-done” project.
  • Outlining is essential for every student (different outline types are discussed in our Teacher’s Manual for 6th-12th grades). Mastering this skill will provide structure and again, build confidence in a reluctant writer’s ability to get the assignment completed.
  • Consider writing an essay together.  While this may feel like pulling teeth, it is well worth the effort.  It will also remind you of how challenging it can be to complete such an assignment, ensuring future compassion from you!  🙂
  • Vary essay lengths. Many schools push the 5 paragraph essay and yet, most colleges prefer a student with a more varied writing style.  Encourage your student to write shorter and longer essays.  You may even want to start with a mini-essay of only three paragraphs.  Descriptive essays are good candidates for this writing assignment. No matter what writing curriculum you use, feel free to modify as needed for your student.
  • Be patient.  Yes, the clock is ticking, but in four years of high school, there’s plenty of time to include a wide variety of writing experiences into your student’s curriculum.  Also, remember that your student will grow and mature more in those four years.  So you need not tackle every problem in the freshman year.  My reluctant writer grew exponentially in his writing ability over those four years!

In fact, he derived great pleasure in college by passing along a comment from an English professor who had commended him for writing on the same level as a graduate student!  Who would have thought?!

Take courage, Mom!


9. If possible, have your student complete two research papers during high school.

Research papers are a fact of high school life.  The great thing about a research paper is that you break it down into smaller components and work on it a little at a time.  And you don’t have to make the first one a semester long project. You may choose to start smaller, perhaps assigning your high school writer to write a five page research paper.

Most students take a semester to write a  long paper,  but for a reluctant writer, it could take a little longer.  There are no rules about how long it should take, but ideally, a college-bound high school student should have two research papers under his belt by graduation.

If you’re teaching a reluctant high school writer,  the topic will make all of the difference.  (See tip #2!)  With your student’s first research paper, most definitely allow her to select the topic.  You may want her to give you a list of possibilities and you help narrow it down, but it should be a topic of interest.

Again, keep the first assigned research paper about seven to ten pages. The second could be 15-20+. But YOU can decide the length based on your high school student and the availability of research available on the topic you assign.

Reassure your student that she’ll have PLENTY of time to get the paper finished.  You’ll want to help her break it up into smaller parts with deadlines throughout the semester or year.

Then stick with those deadlines as much as possible. (Meeting deadlines is another vital skill for your high school student to learn!)

If there is an issue keeping the deadline, please don’t let it be because you didn’t have something graded on time. I know it’s hard keeping up with everything, Mama. But try to carve out time to grade your high school writers’ papers in a timely way.

Nothing is more discouraging to a student than telling him his commitment to his work and your deadline is critical, but then making him wait days for you to evaluate his work.  Consider grading each segment of the process, because there is less pressure with multiple grades than one major grade.

Once your student is familiar with the research paper format, try to fit in a second paper. Tackling an academic topic at this point would be fine. If you could use some help teaching the research paper format, we have a course for that.


10. Look into outside writing courses.

Sending a reluctant writer to a writing class may seem odd for a student who is already insecure about his abilities. Actually, though, we’ve found that sometimes male students, in particular, respond better in a structured, class setting.  They often work harder because they don’t want to look bad in front of their peers!

Whether you teach your student yourself or find another instructor, know that reluctant writers tend to achieve more with teachers who have a sense of humor and are encouraging, without allowing the student to deviate from the course.  Grace and understanding when a student is struggling, balanced with accountability, is not always an easy combination of traits to master, but definitely worth the effort.

If your relationship with your reluctant writer is strained over this subject, consider finding another writing teacher for a season, at least. Make sure to discuss the issues with the instructor ahead of time.

Teaching a high school student is truly a sacrificial act for many parents.  When that student is a reluctant writer, the jewels on the crown increase exponentially!  Just remember that this is only one aspect of your student. And you both will make it through with prayer, patience, practice, and time. God bless and know that the fruit of your labor will not go unnoticed!

Don’t forget to go back to read the first five tips here.

Are you struggling this year with a reluctant high school writer? Which of these tips might help? If you need more support, consider using a more homeschool mom-friendly writing curriculum.


Happy Writing!

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